I heard from Michelle not long ago, and she’s now expecting #3 (congrats!). The baby is a boy. So far, the favorite name is Caspian but…well, I’ll let Michelle explain:
we really like the name caspian. i like that it’s a literary character [like saylor’s middle name dorian] and even more so i like that it’s a ‘noun’ name so it matches saylor and clover. also being the name of a sea it matches saylor without being too matchy like the name anchor or navy or something.
so that’s the name that i keep going back to but i am having the hardest time with it being 3 syllables. i feel like it doesn’t flow that well- it feels long to me so i KNOW i would want to abbreviate it. and so then he would be cas, casp, or caspy or casper.. which i’m not crazy fond of any of these. plus then you lose the name… i don’t like naming a kid something knowing they will never really go by that name. so i’m looking for a name like caspian.. but looking for a 2 syllable name i guess! i prefer 2 but would use a 1 syllable name if we loved it.
other names we’ve looked at-
cannon- but i feel like it’s forgettable and sounds like a bunch of other names- caiden, cohen, etc.
shepherd- i do like this name. not sure how well it matches our kids but i think i like it?
sage- considering this as potential middle name tho it’s way more popular for a girl’s name now!
my husband suggested voyage today but i feel like that’s too out there/trying to be crazy. i’m open to virtue names but not many good boy ones. not a fan of loyal.
i’ve chewed on booker, shale, atlas and cedar but not feeling it…
a friend also suggested oxlee which is kinda cool but kinda a made up name which i’d rather have a real word.
basil is a family name and i like it but not enough i don’t think..
i’ve spent countless hours thinking and looking and considering… i want to find a name that isn’t in the top 1000 as well. for sure forget it if it’s in the top 500 [i do like the names kingston, river, maddox etc but do not like how trendy they are].. sorry i ramble. :)
so, should i just go with caspian and try to get used to saying 3 syllables all the time? do you have any other suggestions??
Some of my thoughts:
If you know without a doubt that you’ll shorten it, and you don’t like (and won’t grow to like) any of the shortened versions, there’s no point in forcing it. Picking Caspian would be equivalent to picking a name you don’t like.
That said…when someone tells me he/she “keeps going back to” a particular baby name, I tend to see that as a sign.
Caspian may have 3 syllables, but it’s not that long–especially since the first syllable gets the most stress and the last gets the least. This makes it easy for the name to roll off the tongue.
We all know people with even longer names (e.g. Alexanders, Ariannas) who go by their full names. It’s not strange or outlandish or anything.
If you like Caspian that much, try testing it out. Call the baby Caspian for a week or two and challenge yourself not to shorten the name. Maybe it’ll be easier than you think. Much like picking up a new habit — you have to put in some effort at first, but once it sticks, you’re good.
2. A few more name ideas
All have 2 syllables and are not in the top 1,000 right now.
- Ansel – Makes me think of nature/the outdoors, thanks to Ansel Adams.
- Bering – From the sea and strait, both named for the explorer.
- Canyon – More memorable than cannon, as it gives people a visual.
- Crispin – Sounds a lot like Caspian.
- Murray – From the name of Australia’s longest river.
- Radley – From the character Arthur “Boo” Radley.
- Rigel – From the star Rigel.
3. Your turn!
- What are your thoughts on Caspian?
- Which of the above names do you like best with Saylor and Clover?
- What other names would you suggest to Michelle and her husband?