And, in many cases, they’re later regretted. Here’s what a Hong Kong business student Fragile Chan had to say about his English name:
“I started using ‘Fragile’ when I was 14,” he says. “I first encountered the word in my English class and I chose it as my name because I liked how it’s pronounced.”
Chan says his name makes it easy for others to remember him and it’s an easy conversation-starter when he meets new people. But in his experience, having an uncommon name isn’t always pleasant.
“I am tired of explaining my name to others when I need to introduce myself. Some people even mock me for having a ‘fragile heart’,” he says. Now Chan has decided to change his name to Nathan. “I would like to be less weird in formal situations,” he says.
One U.S. entrepreneur has created a site called Best English Name, which helps Chinese students choose more appropriate English names. Site-suggested names include “Davis, Max, Eli, and Riley” for males and “Elody, Ava, Jolie, and Ellie” for females. These are a lot better than Kinky and Melon, and style-wise they’re fairly appropriate for current teenagers.
But I think the best advice out there comes from Philip Guo’s blog post How to choose an English name, because it can be applied to any age group.
His main recommendation? Go to the SSA’s website, find the top 100 names for your birth year, and choose one from the list for your gender. He says:
You must choose your name from one of these 100 names. Even if you randomly choose a name (for your gender, of course), then congratulations, I guarantee that you have chosen a better name than most of your friends who tried to be creative!
So a 15-year-old student (b. 2001) can choose from names like:
- Isabel, Katie, Mia, Sophia, Zoe
- Aidan, Chase, Isaiah, Jack, Noah
But a 40-year-old business-person (b. 1976) can choose from names that might be a better fit for his/her generation, such as:
- Amy, Dana, Monica, Tina, Wendy
- Chad, Dennis, Peter, Shane, Tony
Best of all, every top 100 list includes names appropriate for people of various ages. For example, these names were on both the 1976 and the 2001 lists:
- Anna, Elizabeth, Michelle, Natalie, Sarah
- Adam, David, John, Nathan, Victor
Guo’s other recommendations include ignoring name definitions entirely and sticking to the exact version of the name found in the top 100. He also suggests choosing a name that sounds somewhat like one’s birth name, e.g., the English name Shawn would work well for a Chinese man named Sheng.
Do you have any other good advice for people (Chinese people in particular) seeking English names?