A reader named Kelley is looking for a female name to go with the surname Phelan (FEE-lan). So far, she likes Eleanor, and her boyfriend likes Megan.
This is a very open-ended question, but here’s my take:
I find it interesting that Kelley’s boyfriend likes Megan, because I actually have the opposite view. I think a first name that has both the same rhythm and the same n-ending as Phelan would sound a bit odd, so I’d cross Megan and similar names (e.g. Erin, Helen, Lauren, Susan, Jordan) off my list.
I do like Eleanor with Phelan, on the other hand. They share some consonant and vowel sounds, but each has a distinct rhythm, so (to me) they are similar without being “matchy.” A nice balance, I think.
Other names I might throw out there? Let’s see…
Alicia Amelia Brianna Bridget Celeste Cynthia Daniela Elisa Julianna Lucy Lydia | Margaret Mara Maya Muriel Natalie Natasha Nicole Nora Rowena Theresa Valerie |
Sticking with the “Eleanor” pattern, most of the above are have sounds in common with Phelan, but rhythms all their own.
What other names would you suggest to Kelley?
Update – The baby has arrived! Scroll down to the last comment to see what names they chose…
I suggest something with a hard constanant sound (c, d, g, k, t) , just to break up the softer sounds of the last name.
Victoria, Charlotte, Birgit, Greta, Abigail, Anita, Adelaide, Jacqueline, Rebecca, Michaela
My first impulse was to use the same “ee” sound that’s in the last name for some reason. (Probably because “fee-lan” was not the way I imagined Phelan was pronounced, and some part of my subconscious brain wants to emphasize it now.)
I agree with avoiding names that end in “n”.
The first name that popped into my head:
Daphne Phelan
(Seriously, how good does that look on paper? Makes me want to use it as a character name in a novel.)
And other ideas:
Adria Phelan
Alicia Phelan
Cecilia Phelan
Holly Phelan
Julie Phelan
Kiera Phelan
Sabrina Phelan
@C in DC — Oh, that’s a good idea — would be a nice contrast. Thanks!
@Angela — I’ve heard Phelan pronounced other ways, so I think it’s one of those surnames that can vary, depending upon where you live. I’m very glad Kelley mentioned how she pronounces it in her e-mail — makes things a lot easier for us. Thanks for the suggestions!
Yeah I thought it was pronounced fee-lan – nancy how else would you suggest it be said?
@Luke – I’ve heard a version with a long A sound (FAY-lan). And I’m sure some people also pronounce it with a short E (FEH-lan).
@Luke — I was imagining that it rhymed with Stellan.
Liora
Georgia
Tamsin
Virginia
Adele
Evangeline
Emmeline
Veronica
Annika
We named our little girl who is now 6 Phelin Olivia. We Love her name and the middle name works well with her first name…Hope this helps..
Just heard from Kelley!
They ended up naming their baby girl Eileanór Rachel Medb. Rachel is in honor of Eileanór’s great Nanna, who passed away a year before the baby was born.
Kelley says “we actually call her Elly or Elle, but if she is being a bit cheeky we call her Elly Rae (shortened versions of her first and middle name)!”
Congrats!