Flavilla Doane Loring was just 13 months old when she died on October 12, 1847.
She and I clearly never knew one another. We aren’t related in any way. And yet I’ve known about her for decades.
I grew up on Cape Cod (which is that “hook” part of Massachusetts). The Cape gets notoriously touristy in the summers. So, when I went places as a kid, I took as many non-road shortcuts as possible to avoid having to walk alongside the backed-up tourist traffic.
One of those shortcuts was right through the Pine Grove Cemetery, which allowed me to bypass the busy intersection of North Main Street and Route 28.
Even back then I had a thing for names, so I often stopped to read the headstones. And It didn’t take long for me to discover Flavilla.
She’s buried next to her parents, Capt. John Loring and Hannah Loring, and three of her siblings: William, John, and Hannah. (I later learned that young John drowned at the age of 3 in Bass River — the body of water on the right side of the map.)
John, Hannah, William…these were names I recognized.
But Flavilla? Totally new to me.
I remember staring it, trying to make sense of it.
That’s a name? Really?
It wasn’t like any name I’d ever seen before. The closest thing I could come up with was Priscilla, the name of one of my father’s aunts. But even that was a stretch.
How did she get a name like that? Where did it come from? What does it mean?
I felt like an archaeologist who’d just dug up some curious little artifact. I was eager to identify it, figure it out, give it some context.
I couldn’t, though. Not back then. The Internet hadn’t become particularly useful yet, and our modest town library didn’t offer much by way of research materials.
But now I can…
The Origin of Flavilla
It may look made-up, but Flavilla is legitimate name. And a very old one at that.
It was used by women in ancient Rome, where it was a feminine form of the name Flavius, which was based on the Latin word flavus, meaning “golden” or “yellow.” (The original bearer of the name Flavius was likely a blond.)
The name has since been attached to a species of butterfly with yellow wings:
But none of this explains why a 19th-century New England couple gave this fanciful, non-Biblical name to their daughter.
The Flavilla Trend
I checked Flavilla Doane Loring’s family tree for possible namesakes, but didn’t find anything conclusive.
While doing the research, though, I did spot a few other Flavillas — all born in the 1800s.
This made me wonder whether the name Flavilla wasn’t simply a trendy name back in 19th-century America.
Turns out, it was:
- The first Flavillas I found were born in the 1760s.
- After that, usage increased.
- Usage peaked in the 1840s and 1850s.
- After that, usage decreased.
- The last Flavillas I found were born in the 1930s.
I’m not quite sure what made Flavilla stylish in the mid-1800s (beyond sound), but I think I know what sparked the trend in the first place: a story.
The Story of Flavilla
“The Fatal Effects of Fashionable Levities: The Story of Flavilla” first appeared in the London periodical The Adventurer in 1754.
The protagonist was a young woman, Flavilla, whose flighty behavior ended up costing her dearly. Here’s a line from the last paragraph: “May every lady, on whose memory compassion shall record these events, tremble to assume the levity of Flavilla.”
The author, English writer John Hawkesworth (1715–1773), may have chosen the name Flavilla because of the romantic sound, or because of the consonance with “levity.”
The story was reprinted (under various titles) in story and essay collections for decades to come. It eventually made its way to the States — either in The Adventurer or in one of the subsequent compilations — and that’s about the time we start seeing the first baby Flavillas.
Bitten by the Name Bug
For years, Flavilla’s name remained a mystery to me.
But I never stopped wondering about it.
Whenever I cut through the Pine Grove Cemetery, I would stop at the Loring family plot just so I could see her name one more time.
Stumbling upon Flavilla’s name is what motivated me to start really paying attention to names.
It’s what got me hooked, you could say.
I started checking name books out of the library. I started visiting other graveyards. I started scanning news articles, phone books, encyclopedia entries — any chunk of text that might contain an interesting name.
And, many years later, I started this blog. :)
- Crowell, Levi. John Crowe and His Descendants. New York: Thomas Y. Crowell & Co., 1903.
- Doane, Alfred Alder. The Doane Family. Boston: Alfred Alder Doane, 1902.
- Pope, Charles Henry. Loring Genealogy. Cambridge, MA: Murray and Emery Company, 1917.
20 thoughts on “Babies named for the story “Flavilla””
Flavilla isn’t my style, but I love Flavia. Great story.
What a story! Thanks for sharing!! :)
Thank you for sharing this fascinating name story, and your own connection to it! :)
My question for next year is: Will this posting give enough attention to the name Flavilla to bring it back in the SSA statistics (with five or more baby girls bearing that name)?
It would be crazy if Flavilla actually popped up on the 2013 list, wouldn’t it?
Found Flavilla on this site about old names in Quebec:
Thanks elbowin! (That’s a really interesting site!)
My Great Grandmother was Flavilla Amelia Sayles. She’s buried in Woodruff Cemetary in LaGrange County, Indiana.
Thanks so much for the info – I always wondered about her name.
Thanks for the comment, Carol!
My great great grandmother was Rosa Flavilla Palacios! Her father was Cuban and her Mother was from Maine.
My great great grandmother was named Flavilla- she died in the 1950s and was over 100. My dad remembers meeting her and thinking she had a strange name. Thanks for the insight… we’ve always wondered.
Thank you for the comments, Elizabeth and Maggie! I love hearing about all the Flavillas out there…
My great-great grandmother was Flavilla Jennings of Jefferson County, Indiana, born in 1850. Go fig.
She got the name right when it was trendiest!
My great grandmother and grandmother are named Flavilla and it’s my middle name.
How cool that it was passed all the way down to you!
My great-grand mother was Flavilla Burnham Collyer born in Arizona on 1880. At the age of 20, she married an Englishman, had six children and died, too young, in New Mexico 1920.
My Great Grandmother was named Flavilla and I was named after her. My name is Flavilla and people are always fascinated by it. They always ask “What does it mean”? I never had any knowledge of it meaning anything; until now. Thanks for the little bit of information. I thought it was just a name passed down in my family. :)
Thank you for leaving a comment, Flavilla Singleton! I’m so happy this post was helpful to you. :)